Observations

Observations:

My “isms”
These aren’t things that I am good at doing…just things I know to be true.


1. God is the only one you can have a relationship with that will never leave you and never stop loving you.

2. Think before you speak so you aren’t trying to talk around a shoe. (foot in mouth):o)

3. Don’t ever be afraid to give away love. It has a great return value.

4. Never write down anything you don’t want someone else to read.

5. If you hate something or someone, the only one who feels it is you…and you don’t like to hurt you…do you?

6. Being happy isn’t always something that happens, you have to find the joy in every situation…there is always something.

7. Quality time is never something that you regret - spending with those you love.

8. Sometimes letting go of someone you love is for THEIR own good. (There are many reasons you might have to do this: 1. They are doing very bad/dangerous things to themselves or others. 2. You know that what you have to offer them is not what they need and there would be very bad times ahead.)

9. Everyone likes to be appreciated…even if they don’t act like they like it.

10. Your gut instincts are usually correct ones.

11. Marry your best friend…even in the bad times, you will have someone to pick you up and have a good laugh with.

12. The mom’s curse works (I hope you have a child just like you one day) so be good to your mom.

13. If you can’t get to sleep OR if you are suddenly and, without apparent reason, awakened in the night…it’s God’s little alarm clock. There might be a reason that he want’s you awake. Sometimes he likes to catch you when you aren’t working or preoccupied with something else. Talk to Him.

14. You can never have too many TRUE friends.

15. True friends make mistakes, make you mad and make you crazy sometimes…but they come through when you need them and they always make life bearable.

16. Your family is your family. They are there with you from the beginning helping to make you who you are and who you are going to become…later, they give you someone to put the blame on for you being the way you are. :o)

17. Children give love by nature. We tend to be more skeptical as we get older and don’t feel as free with our love. Don’t worry so much about where love lands…give it and there will be a great return. Also, you will be happier in spite of yourself.

18. When you fall in love don’t do it half way or half heartedly and with reserve. LOVE! When you love, you have to give it all you have. Be YOU. Be REAL. Be COMMITTED. Be RESPECTFUL. Don’t worry about the small fights or the falling outs…just resolve them. Figure out what is REALLY important and worth disagreeing/fighting over. Laugh a lot. Hold hands. Be silly with each other. Listen. Never stop communicating.

19. Quality time is key to any healthy relationship.

20. You can't ever give someone something you don't have, no matter how much you may want to. (This is especially true for love.)

21. Kids of all ages, are basically the same. They want love but they want boundaries too.